A Better Way (Goals & Aspirations)

I’ll admit my guilty pleasure if you promise to keep it to yourself. Here it is – talk shows. Jerry Springer is my favorite one. We’ll have to go over the pros and cons of great shows past and present but not today. Today, I’m deeply saddened.

On an episode of Jerry Springer was a young lady, barely 21, who labeled herself a “ho.” She was attractive and articulate and her story puzzled me. She met her pimp when she was 17 but he told her he couldn’t even talk to her until she was legal and waited until her 18th birthday to call her. They began to date until the time came for her to “take care of him” due to another “ho’s” disappearance.

The sad part came when she told Jerry that she came on the show to make her pimp choose between her and another ho. She wasn’t interested in living a meaningful life and offering something to her community, leaving a legacy for her son. I’m almost positive that she wont’ read this blog but I wish there was a way to interest her in something else – something better. I pray that she finds some goals and hope that she envisions some aspirations.

How can we help guide our youth?

In My Own Way...

For the first time, I’ve had to delete a phone number from my contact list. Tragedy has struck my family and God is the only soother for this pain. Over the years, I’ve witnessed the pain of others whose lives were touched by violence via the media – never knowing when my turn would come.

Some think it’s amazing that I’ve grown up in Washington, DC yet have very little first-hand knowledge of the seedier side of life. I call it anointing. A long time ago, somebody prayed that this family be covered by the hand of God and that grace has followed us for years.
Unfortunately, my family circle has been broken by violence.

My pain is raw, it’s rugged, its real. I can’t wish it on anyone else though I know there are others who share it, bear it along with me. Thank you for your prayers.

Is this acceptable?

Background Information:

A cartoon likening the author of the stimulus bill, perhaps President Barack Obama, with a rabid chimpanzee graced the pages of the New York Post on Wednesday.
The drawing, from famed cartoonist Sean Delonas, is rife with violent imagery and racial undertones. In it, two befuddled-looking police officers holding guns look over the dead and bleeding chimpanzee that attacked a woman in Stamford, Connecticut.
"They'll have to find someone else to write the next stimulus bill," reads the caption.
An email to Delonas and a call to the New York Post went unreturned. The cartoon appears both on the New York Post website and page 12 of the Wednesday paper.
At its most benign, the cartoon suggests that the stimulus bill was so bad, monkeys may as well have written it. Others believe it compares the president to a rabid chimp. Either way, the incorporation of violence and (on a darker level) race into politics is bound to be controversial. Perhaps that's what Delonas wanted.

UPDATE: Rev. Al Sharpton has weighed in on the cartoon in a statement:
"The cartoon in today's New York Post is troubling at best given the historic racist attacks of African-Americans as being synonymous with monkeys. One has to question whether the cartoonist is making a less than casual reference to this when in the cartoon they have police saying after shooting a chimpanzee that "Now they will have to find someone else to write the stimulus bill."
"Being that the stimulus bill has been the first legislative victory of President Barack Obama (the first African American president) and has become synonymous with him it is not a reach to wonder are they inferring that a monkey wrote the last bill?"

The picture depicts racial over- and under-tones. Here we are -- years after slavery is over, in the "land of the free, home of the brave," the great American melting pot -- still resorting to name-calling. I must agree with our new Black US Attorney General Eric Holder terming Americans "cowards." When will we stop hiding behind slurs and pictures and become true Americans who realize that we are all created equal? But, racism in America is so commonplace that this instance registers no surprise. (To Rev. Sharpton - as if he'd read this -- I'd say, I'm sure many Americans agree with the sentiment expressed. But while a "monkey" may have initiated this stimulus plan, a whole lot of barnyard animals are going to benefit from it.)

Comedic references to the President is par for the course. I've been waiting for the funny-men to come out of hiding and let loose on the race jokes about our bi-racial President. I'll be the first to admit that light-hearted ribbing is good for the soul. We enjoy making fun of ourselves and those in power.

The First Amendment to the U.S. Constitution gives us the right to free speech. Because of this, I'm willing to accept this sketch based on the above comments. However, what I deem unacceptable is the allusion to our Commander in Chief being gunned down. Isn't this dangerously close to treason? Has a sitting President ever been depicted in this way? What we need to ask ourselves is why we allow such behavior.

Of course, the paper doesn't see anything wrong -- their economy was stimulated via this cartoon. If Don Imus could lose his job for calling a group of Black women "nappy headed hoes," what should happen to the man who disrespects our Head of State? Every instance of anyone publicly making a derogatory statement about an ethnic group is deftly resolved (some inappropriately). What makes this one any different?

The Silent generation --> people born before 1946.

The Baby Boomers --> people born between 1946 and 1959.

Generation X --> people born between 1960 and 1979.

Generation Y --> people born between 1980 and 1995.

Why do we call the last one generation Y?

I did not know, but the cartoonist explains it eloquently.